Tomorrow we leave Paris and head south into the French countryside. I'm so excited about exploring castles, chateaus, fields of sunflowers and medieval villages.
I'll be living and working from an old stone Farmhouse in the Dordogne Region as the laptop lifestyle takes me on an adventure back in time.
I've been doing lots of deep work since I've been in Europe, activating my 'Inner Queen' as I call it, which is basically clearing new layers of old beliefs to make way for new levels of business and life expansion. So what better place to allow my 'Inner Queen' to be nurtured to new heights... than the ancient French countryside.
I have reached much success and fulfilment in my life that I am grateful for everyday and I firmly believe it is my relationship with 'so called' failure that has allowed me to get here.
Fear of failure is THE biggest obstacle I see in my clients paths to success yet without a few big failures along the way... success is often not possible.
We are often trying to avoid the most necessary step on the road to success and by doing so we cheat ourselves of the chance of reaching our dreams.
I have had more 'failures' over the years in my business and life than you can imagine.
I've had no-one sign up for programs, I've had times when my funds have completely run dry, I've made poor investment choices, tried promotion and marketing ideas that completely flopped and I've had times when I felt like giving up my dream as it felt so far away.
Yes I am the queen of face plants but I keep getting back up every time and I would much prefer to face plant my way to success than be living a life of unfulfilled dreams.
Now that I have been around the business and life merry-go- round a few times and have created most of my dream life... I have noticed that the bigger the failure along the way the stronger and clearer I have risen after each plummet or stagnant phase.
It is these times of challenge that prepare us for success, that build our resilience, our courage and teach us the divine lessons that we need to learn along the way by inspiring us to dig deep.
Here are my tried and tested tips for sucking the gold out of failure to ensure success. Sluuuuuurp it up!
3 Ways To Transform Failure into Success
1. Know there is no such thing as failure.
From a deeper and wiser perspective, failure is an illusion and the sooner we start to see it that way, the sooner we will find ourselves smack BANG in our dream life. POW!
Failure is only experienced when we are focusing on the small picture but when we broaden our view of the situation and see the big picture, the truth emerges that the uncomfortable outcome is simply an opportunity and catalyst for growth and expansion. Just like when we are looking at the sun setting over the horizon from earth level, it looks like the earth is flat and the sun disappears each night... but when we see it from the vast expanse of space it is actually just the round earth spinning miles away from the sun. Life is all about perspective. Most things that we fear in life are illusions when we see it from a broader perspective and failure is no exception. Throw out the concept of failure now. Bye bye!
2. Don't be afraid to feel the disappointment of poor results.
It is the discomfort of the illusion of failure that is the potent manure for growth, so don't cheat yourself of it's transformational effect by sweeping it under the carpet. Equally so, don't wallow in it like the poor outcome is your true destiny and new identity either. Instead... open fully to the feelings of frustration and disappointment and let them wash over you. Allow them to become a doorway to dig deeper than ever before for your true power.
Allow any pain and frustration that surfaces from disappointing results to cleanse you and drive your focus deeper to the source of who you are that is beyond success or failure.
3. Focus on the lessons learned rather than the 'mistakes' made.
When we are learning to walk we fall over a thousand times as this is the most effective way to learn. Studies have been conducted with experts in many fields to determine the fastest way to gain success in a skill. The elite of all fields practice at the edges of their ability. Learning to play an instrument, mastering a ball skill in soccer, learning to catch bigger waves in surfing or perfecting a business program launch... the best of the best in any field will operate at their performance edges which increases their chance of 'failure'. But is also the fastest and surest way to success. They simply keep their eyes on what they learned each time they 'fail' because they know that it is not really failure, it is the stretching of the edges of their capabilities. So next time you so called fail, write a list of all of the lessons you learned from the experience so that you can use it to stretch your edges of performance and skill.
I experienced a recent business 'failure' that inspired me to focus more deeply on my true zone of genius which is the transformation required to ensure success.
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