My baby bump is getting bigger by the day and the little angel in my womb must surely be a kung fu master because there is lots of acrobatics going on in there!
One of the realisations that triggered so many blessings to unfold in my life this year was a decision to stop comparing myself to others and to just stay focused on my dreams unfolding... and they have unfolded... one by one. Catch up on my year HERE.
Have you ever felt the green eyed monster rear it's head when you look at other people's lives and business success?
Have you felt the gut wrenching punch of the 'I'm not good enough' voice that can often berate us when we get the measuring stick out and compare ourselves to others?
"She has more of this and more of that. He is better at this or better at that.”
We compare our looks, we compare our partners, we compare our lifestyles, our jobs, our children, our bank balances. We hear what other people are doing, we see the photo edition of their lives on Facebook or on television and we assume that they are so much better or worse off than us.
Our self worth goes up and down like a yoyo depending on who we are comparing ourselves to. It is a crazy battle of superiority and inferiority complexes!
Nuts nuts nuts! It is a sure fire way to be miserable if we spend the whole time measuring ourselves against others.
Does one wave in the ocean compare itself to another wave. “Oh dude you are so much bigger and fatter than me”.
NO! A wave simple ripples across the surface of life in all its natural glory whatever the quality, shape or size.
I used to let others success knock me off my perch. A small part of me would be happy for them but my big strong ego was having a tantrum... “what about me!” It was even painful to watch someone else soar to success and achieve the things that I desired so much when I was still struggling.
But then I realised I was pushing my dream life even further away by feeling triggered by seeing such success around me. I decided it was time to turn it into inspiration.
Every time I saw or heard of some-one creating success such as the online business of their dreams or meeting the man of their dreams... I would celebrate them. I realised that we are all one and their success was my success too if I chose to celebrate it.
Over time I was celebrating every little success that entered my world and then celebration began to overflow into my life. Soon enough I was celebrating the same successes I had observed in others in my own life.
So who's ready to get off the comparison train and board the inspiration train?
The inspiration train is filled with contentment and gratitude. Everyone on the train supports your achievements and your awakening. There is room for you to shine as bright as the sun on a scorching summers day! So who's coming for a ride?
All aboard! Wooowhooooo!
On the inspiration train there is no better or worse, there is only inspiration. When we are on the inspiration train we look for other peoples strengths and we are inspired by them. The ticket that gets you onto the inspiration train is equal worth. Everyone on the inspiration train has the same value.
We all have different skills, assets and talents and we are free to share them. We are free to shine our natural radiance and there is plenty of room for everyone to shine there particular unique sparkle. The purpose of sharing on the inspiration train is purely to inspire others to surrender to their innate greatness.
On the inspiration train when we see someone doing well and shining in all their talents, skills and unique beauty we applaud and celebrate them. It triggers feelings of inspiration and happiness. There air is thick with magic and motivation!
There is an emotional age restriction for the inspiration train. You are required to be at a level of emotional maturity and wisdom. The perception within the inspiration train is to see right to the core of who people are. To see right to their essence and the ultimate truth of life. At the essence we all are born from source and we return to source. We are all of equal worth. Our true worth is not based on what we are doing and achieving... our worth is innate just for merely existing!
We are free to shine the light we were born to shine and celebrate the uniqueness of all the reflections around us.
5 Tips for turning Comparison into Inspiration
Enjoy celebrating success that is around you. Keep your eyes on walking your own path and before long you will be celebrating your own success.
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