I had an amazing day of celebration on the weekend and I'm excited to share it with you.
Those of you who have been part of the Silent Nature Tribe for a while will have seen my magical year of miracles unfold this year.
At the beginning of the year I created a powerful daily manifesting practice that I call, The Law of Triples, that tripled my income in my online business... twice … and tripled the blessings in my personal life.
So on the weekend I had a small gathering of close family and friends to celebrate the blessings.
I was frolicking through a local vineyard on the weekend with Matt and bump as we were purchasing some local wine for our 'triple celebration' party this weekend. We are having a house warming, commitment ceremony and baby blessing all in one.
One thing that I have noticed has shifted immensely for me this year is that I have finally stopped feeling guilty for my blessed life. This in turn allowed the blessings to triple and expand to new heights.
Do you ever feel guilty for having too much fun or being too successful?
Do you ever feel guilty when having a rest and taking time out for yourself?
Does guilt stop you from speaking up for yourself and expressing how you feel?
Is guilt stopping you from diving to the depths of an abundant life?
Guilt is a deep seeded emotion that secretly dictates how much joy and success we allow to enter our lives.
Guilt is the yardstick of how BAD we feel inside and how much success we feel worthy of.
Guilt and success are often directly proportional. The amount of success you experience is related to how much guilt you carry. Drop a few bags of guilt and success rushes in to replace it!
Sooo it's time to get up close and personal with guilt and put it under the microscope so that you can see how much it is affecting your life. Your success depends on it! Let's go on a powerful 'guilt trip' to master this powerful emotion.
My baby bump is getting bigger by the day and the little angel in my womb must surely be a kung fu master because there is lots of acrobatics going on in there!
One of the realisations that triggered so many blessings to unfold in my life this year was a decision to stop comparing myself to others and to just stay focused on my dreams unfolding... and they have unfolded... one by one. Catch up on my year HERE.
Have you ever felt the green eyed monster rear it's head when you look at other people's lives and business success?
Have you felt the gut wrenching punch of the 'I'm not good enough' voice that can often berate us when we get the measuring stick out and compare ourselves to others?
"If plan A fails, remember there are 25 more letters in the alphabet!"
We live in a world that is obsessed with success. We struggle and strive to be greater, bigger, faster, stronger and wiser. Success is like a carrot that dangles before us and we often run ourselves dizzy, going in circles just to get a taste of it.
Well bugger that I say!
Striving for perfection and so called success is over-rated. I would much rather playfully fail, learn, laugh, get back up, try again and see where that takes me.
Give me a big fat face plant any day! Ha!
Fear of failure is one of the human races biggest fears but failure is my new best friend and I can't wait to tell you why!
Now that I am 30 weeks pregnant the fears of childbirth and parenthood are beginning to rise. Ahhhh!
Fear is such a natural part of change and needs to be met each time we move out of our comfort zone and into new territory.
How much anxiety do you experience everyday?
Does fear hold you back from your dreams?
Do you usually avoid it or face it so that you can keep moving towards your visions?
It is time for us all to stop running from anxiety and to face it!
Anxiety gets a bad rap because it appears to be what holds us back from living the life we were born to live, but it has an very important place in the spectrum of human emotions when befriended.
The key that I have found to deal with anxiety in my life and with my clients is firstly to make friends with anxiety.
This last month living in my dream home, waking up next to my soul mate, baby in my womb, getting up to joyfully work part time in my dream job... I have often felt a feeling of deja vu.
… like I've lived this life before.
A strange newness but at the same time... a powerful familiarity.
A familiarity because I saw this life on my horizon years ago.
My intuition often showed me glimpses of what was on the distant horizon of my life...
… IF I followed my intuitions guidance with unwavering faith.
… IF I kept my eyes on the dream and didn't get stuck going in circles out to sea.
… IF I believed in myself enough to keep moving and overcome the obstacles that presented themselves constantly along the way.
I am living the dream life that I saw on my horizon because I chose to believe it was possible, I kept my focus on it and did whatever it took... until the dream became a reality.
So what can you see on your intuitive horizon?
Creating your own online business is not an easy path otherwise everyone would be doing it.
...it is one of the most worthwhile paths you can ever go on as it gives you the freedom to work from anywhere and to live life on your terms! Yeah!
Most people shy away from diving into creating their own business or they give up much too soon because it all becomes waaaay too hard.
But uncovering peace has been my lifelong mission so I have found a way to create a business with greater ease and grace and I'd love to share it with you.
This weeks blog post is inspired by some shitty house warming 'presents' that have emerged since my partner, Matt and I moved into our dream home a few weeks ago.
Our dog, Tyson, took a little while to adjust to moving into such a big house and property after being an apartment dog. In the stressful first week of adjusting to his new territory he pooped on the white carpet....twice! Greyhounds leave big packages too! Ahhhh!
Then on our second weekend... the septic system blocked, backed up and sent raw sewerage up through the plug hole into the downstairs shower! Ahhhh!
Both situations were a nice mirror of the shitty side of life that we need to face and deal with on our life adventure.
Even when life is in a blissful 'reap what you've sewn' phase as mine is this year... there will always be a shadow side to every situation, including every blessing that appears in our life.
So how do you deal with the darker shitty bits that emerge in your life?
Do you run, hide and make excuses to avoid them at all costs?
OR are you a brave warrior who faces the dark side and the bumps in the road with courage, resilience and positivity?
OR maybe you're both depending on the day!
I am slowly settling into my new dream home. To be honest... it is such a gorgeous property that I feel like I've rented the place for a few weeks. mIt is taking a while to sink in that it is actually our home.
Having a few guests come over has helped to make it feel more real... but my self worth is still adjusting to all the amazing blessings I've created this year. “I am worthy of this beautiful life and home,”... has been my mantra.
One of the main qualities I've cultivated over the years, that I attribute to much of my recent success, but is still a work in progress... is courage.
Courage is a necessary ingredient to live the life of our dreams.
Courage is the bricks and mortar of the house, it is the spine and backbone of the athlete, it is the engine of the jet plane.
Without courage we fall over on the path to our dreams once and never get back up.
With courage we fall down 7 times and get back up 8 times... and therefore succeed!
Would you describe yourself as courageous?
And if so what is courage to you?
I'm still pinching myself after my whirlwind year.
My recent holiday to Fiji and moving into our dream home last weekend has been the absolute icing on the cake.
My life feels like a real life fairy tale.
I'd love to know what your fairy tale life looks like?
Ever been told (or tell yourself) that you are just a dreamer... that your fairy tale dream can't and won't come true?
Have you created a fantasy in your head and you end up talking yourself out of it because you feel that it could only happen in the movies?
Many fairy tales over time have been gobbled up and hidden away by the simple belief that your fairy tale life will only ever be a dream and will never manifest.
BUT if you choose to believe in your dream then it WILL be yours in reality in time.
I've appeared in your world today to remind you that YOUR dream CAN come true and I'd love to show you how.
You CAN have the lifestyle, the partner, the home, the career, the income that you have always dreamed of.... YOU CAN!
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